What makes a family the family - intertwined genes, or love? Alice Nellis's document make it clear. It shows that the adoptive process with all the bureaucratic complications, claims the couple in anticipation of hot and intense emotions can not enter anything in the actual pregnancy. Adoption follows the director who lived through it, the stories of several couples, and in the phase caretaker preparations, first reunion with the child and the gradual accommodation by the family in the new report. Gentle look into the nature of parenthood with all the rewards and risks that for a couple of new roles presents.